S is for Scapegoat Sexual Coercion Shaming Stockholm Syndrome | NARCISSIST • SOCIOPATH • PSYCHOPATH
Glossary Terms | Vocabulary you may come across on your journey understanding what happened | A-Z | S is for Scapegoating, Sexual Coercion, Shaming, Silent Treatment, Sociopath and Stockholm Syndrome.
Terms you may come across on your discovery journey. It could be at the end of a relationship where you are in the DISCARD stage trying to find out what is happening or you are out of the relationship coming to terms with the ending.
SCAPEGOATING • Singling out one child, employee or member of a group of peers for unmerited negative treatment or blame. SEE #GOLDENCHILD V #SCAPEGOAT.
SEXUAL COERCION • #SEXUALCOERCION is unwanted sexual activity; where you are pressured, tricked, threatened, or forced in a non-physical way. It varies from being egged on to perform a sexual act, to being forced to actually have sex.
#SHAMING • This is a technique used to divert attention away from their own bad behavior and PROJECTING that onto you, making you believe you are the problem in order to stay in control.
#SILENTTREATMENT - A passive-aggressive form of #EMOTIONALABUSE in which displeasure, disapproval and contempt is exhibited through nonverbal gestures while maintaining verbal silence. SEE NARCISSISTIC RAGE
#SOCIOPATH • SOCIOPATHS lack or has a weak conscience, outwardly, they show signs of caring, sincerity, and trustworthiness, but like the NARCISSIST AND PSYCHOPATH they are manipulative, often lie; they act recklessly or aggressively. They know their behavior is wrong and they may feel some guilt or remorse, but that doesn’t stop them. Like the NARCISSIST AND PSYCHOPATH, they lack empathy, and are prone to emotional outbursts, including fits of RAGE.
#SOULMATES • THIS REFERENCE IS TO MANUFACTURED SOUL MATES. During the IDEALISATION stage they tell you and anyone who will listen how amazing you are and 'We are meant to be together. We are Soul Mates!' They love the idea of being a romantic; they love the attention it gives them. They are creating a bond; the more they talk about it the more you start to believe them. You have so much in common, you are starting to map out your FAKE FUTURE together! They are the person of your dreams. You are beautiful and you are the only person (so far) that has really understood who they are and their needs.
#STOCKHOLMSYNDROME •STOCKHOLM SYNDROME is when a hostage, kidnap victim or abuse victim develops a sense of loyalty to their captor or abuser. It got its name following a bank robbery in Stockholm on 23 August 1973. The robbery went wrong, the robber Jan-Erik Olsson took four employees hostage for six days. As part of his negotiations with the police his friend Clark Olofsson was allowed to enter the bank, where the two bonded with the hostages who in turn acted to protect their captors; despite being repeatedly threatened by them. The term STOCKHOLM SYNDROME was coined by Swedish psychiatrist & criminologist Nils Bejerot who was involved in the case. STOCKHOLM SYNDROME is when a hostage, kidnap victim or abuse victim develops a sense of loyalty to their captor or abuser.
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NOTE: Elizabeth Goddard • Soul Transformation Therapist • Soul Plan Reader • Reiki Master Teacher • Author - Finding Lily
I am not a psychologist or a counsellor, I am Soul Transformation • Core Issue Therapist, helping you to find the ORIGINAL WOUND and heal from the EMOTIONAL ABUSE you have experienced and turn the GRIT INTO GOLD in your life
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Through my own healing journey, I know the damage Emotional Abuse leaves in your life, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY and SPIRITUALLY. At the end of my relationship I realised this was a game to which I didn’t have the rules to. I was left a shell of my former self and I’d lost everything; I was broke and broken…
I found myself stuck in a debilitating cycle of questioning and doubting myself - “If only I had said… If only I hadn’t said… Maybe if I had done… Maybe if I hadn’t done… “ Despite being told otherwise, I believed it was all my fault and found myself protecting the abuser.
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